Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Attitude

Ada 6 kebiasaan orang-orang yang paling tidak efektif:

Kehilangan sikap.
Orang-orang biasanya mendapatkan apa yang mereka harapkan dari hidup mereka. Harapkan yang terburuk, dan itulah yang akan Anda peroleh.

Action = Harapkan yang Terbaik = Dapat yang Terbaik
“Think the Positive, See the Positive, Hear the Positive Do the Positive รจ Will Get the Positive”
– C.A. Chan Lee Sean

Berhenti berkembang.
Orang-orang adalah apa mereka adanya, dan ke mana mereka menuju disebabkan oleh apa yang ada di dalam pikiran mereka.

Action = “Change”= Berubah
“Thinking = Action = Habit = Attitude = Character = Destiny”
- C.A. Chan Lee Sean


Tidak memiliki rencana dalam hidup.
Sebagaimana yang dikatakan oleh William Feather, penulis dari The Business of Life,"Ada dua jenis kegagalan: orang yang mempunyai rencana tanpa bertindak apa-apa, dan orang yang bertindak tanpa rencana apa-apa."

Action = Daily Plan, Weekly Plan, Monthly Plan, Annual Plan, Decade Plan.
“If you fail to Plan, you are planning your failure”
– Benjamin Franklin

Tidak bersedia berubah.
Beberapa orang memilih lebih baik berpegangan pada apa yang mereka benci daripada memeluk apa yang mungkin lebih baik karena mereka takut memperoleh sesuatu yang lebih buruk.

“If you Change your Thinking, you change your life”
- John Maxwell

Gagal dalam berhubungan dengan orang lain.
Orang-orang yang tidak dapat bergaul dengan orang lain mungkin tidak akan pernah bergerak maju dalam hidupnya.

Success is about Human Relation, if People like your personality, they will love what you share”
– Dale Carnegie

Tidak mau membayar harga kesuksesan.
Jalan menuju sukses selalu menanjak. Setiap orang yang ingin memperoleh, harus mengorbankan banyak.
“Success is a Journey, not a desination, and it takes Time”
-Unkwown

Penghargaan yang tertinggi untuk pekerjaan Anda bukanlah apa yang Anda dapat karenanya, tapi siapakah Anda jadinya olehnya.
Success is not just about money, but it’s about Life, If you can influence other peoples dare to think more, and then they dare to do more, and then they get more,you are a good Leader”.

Kehilangan sikap. Orang-orang biasanya mendapatkan apa yang mereka harapkan dari hidup mereka. Harapkan yang terburuk, dan itulah yang akan Anda peroleh.
Attitude is the difference maker. Attitude isn’t everything, but it is one thing that can make the difference in your life.

Businessman, philanthropist, and author W. Clement Stone stated, “There is little difference in people, but the little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.”

Attitude is the difference maker in your life. About how to deal with the Big Five Attitude Obstacles everybody faces:
discouragement,change,problems,fear,and failure.

If you’re like most people, you have to deal with at least one of the issues every single day!
Let’s take this journey together by first looking at some basics about attitude.

What Is Attitude?

What is an attitude, anyway? When you hear the word, what do you think about? I think of an attitude as an inward feeling expressed by outward behavior. People always project on the outside what they feel on the inside. Some people try to mask their attitude, and they can fool others for a while. But that cover-up doesn’t last long. Attitude always wiggles its way out.

Your attitude colors every aspect of your life. It is like the mind’s paintbrush. It can paint everything in bright, vibrant colors-creating a masterpiece.

Or it can make everything dark and dreary.

Attitude is so pervasive and important that I’ve come to think of it like this:

It is the vanguard of your true self.
Its root is inward but its fruit is outward.
It is your best friend or your worst enemy.
It is more honest and consistent about you than your words.
It is your outward look based on your past experiences.
It is what draws people to you or repels them.
It is never content until it is expressed.
It is the librarian of your past.
It is the speaker of your present.
It is the prophet of your future.

There is not a single part of your current life that is not affected by your attitude. And your future will definitely be influenced by the attitude you carry with you from today forward.

“If you Change your Thinking, you Change your Life”
- John Maxwell

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